Can anybody hear me?

Well, I realize nobody besides me reads this but that’s ok. I don’t like people, there I said it once again. Well here’s the thing I went/am still going to college to help people, the very thing I claim not to like. I am just wondering how I cannot like people but devote a whole career to helping them. I told my buddy in college first time I met you that I don’t like people. She looked at me and said “you know this job is helping people, saving people” which was how we started off our friendship. Ever since then I wondered why? Why do I want to help them? Fast forward a few years, and I still don’t like people but I like helping them. Then today happens, I was having an emotionally shitty day. I went shopping by myself to think. Then the weirdest thing happens to me, good people. Then it made me think back to other good people that have walked through my life.

Basically I had an eye opening day. I now know why I don’t like people but why am I willing to spend the rest of my life helping them. That fact is I am jaded by all the people that treated me like crap, that I didn’t matter too, and that said I wasn’t good enough. I guess I do like people, I care about people in general. I have a big heart, I just keep it guarded from “people”. What I am trying to say is even though I say I don’t like people, deep down I do. I don’t have many friends and that makes me sad. The reason why I don’t have many friends is because of my past and current dealings with bad people.

Also I have found myself getting really annoyed with people that treat other people like crap. I personally hate it when they do it to me, while at their job. I think to myself if I treated you like that at my job I wouldn’t have one. Anyhow, the good people I encountered today help me see why it is that I choose the career I did. Also that their still are good people.

Kisses,
Lady BLAH BLAH

Fast food workers deserve to…….

Fast food workers deserve to make $15 per hour  less than $8 per hour.  Boy I am glad I corrected that.  I think it’s so dumb that people working in fast food should even think and make $10-15 per hour base pay.  WTF! Really tell me how in that job you deserve that much money.  No f*ck*ng way.  I know people who are working doing hard physical labor and don’t make that.  McDonalds has really out done them selfs this time, so let’s get them that raise.  See here is what happened my son wanted a cheeseburger meal with fries and a root beer, and when we got home and he opened the packages here’s what was inside:

1 bun with a piece of cheese

1/2 filled fry box

and that’s it 

So ummm, notices anything missing from that meal like half the fries and the meat and condiments.  So we call them and they say oh sorry about that come back and we will make you a fresh one and give you a whole new fries and through in a cookie for free.  I was like ok are you going to be bringing that to my house or paying for my gas to drive all the way back and replacing my meal as well since it will be good and cold by the time I get to eat.  No the answer is no they are not going to do any of that. Oh gee thanks for that free cookie, if I wanted a cookie I would have ordered one! Just saying. This was just one of many examples of why fast food workers don’t deserve anything more than $8 per hour.  Oh and it’s not just that restaurant it’s subway, wendys, KFC, Tim Hortons (this one served me something I didn’t order and can’t have because a medical condition, and just said they would replace the item, ok thanks but what about what I am going to have to go through now that I have consumed that), Burger King, Taco Bell, Arby’s, and I am sure there are others but I am to sleepy to think of anymore.  Has any place don’t you wrong? If so what restaurant and what did they do? Why do you think they should or shouldn’t get this extra money? 

Thats all for now, it’s 2am and I am tired!

 

Thanks for reading kisses,

Lady BlahBlah

Ban Bossy!

This is on a very serious matter. We need to ban the word bossy from being said! Did anyone else laugh when they read that stuff? Real, real you think banning a word is going to change something. How about we change the way people think instead? Like when we hear poeple talking about a women being “bossy” we gently correct them or something like that. Or maybe these people should just start calling a woman “commanding” instead.  The article I read was talking about when women are in charge they are considered “bossy” and if a man was in that roll he would be considered “commanding”.  Really somebody please tell me what the hell is the big deal? They equally can sound awesome or demeaning depending on how it was said.  Example, she is so commanding I don’t know how she has keep her boyfriend for so long. Or, she is so commanding that she can get the attention of everybody and get the job done. Or I hope I don’t have to work with her she is too bossy. Or, she is a boss, she’s bossy.  Ok that last one can be a little hard for someone to see but it there it’s positive.  Anyway I would much rather be called bossy than commanding.  See how I see it commanding is a bit more harsh then bossy. I would rather be called bossy, if I have to choose between the two.  Cause I am a bossy b*tch! What’s wrong with that. Either way I don’t really give a sh*t.  Lets take up a better cause, please feel free to pick from the following list:

1. Getting children a loving home

2. Fight child abuse

3. Feed the hungry

4. Find long term shelter for the less fortunate 

5. Help the elderly get the things they need (shelter, food, medication) 

6. Help mentally ill people get the treatment they need

7. I could keep going, really I could be at this all night but I’ll stop hope you are getting the point (in case your utterly stupid, there are more important problems going on, then some b*tch*s crying about being called bossy! yo they so bossy trying to tell people not to say bossy! hahahaha)

 

Thanks for reading kisses,

Lady BlahBlah

Facebook adult kids

So I have a Facebook account and here is where the fun begins! Now these friends on my private Facebook are all people I have known in real life prior to being Facebook friends. So moving on, one of these friends is an adult as am I, but makes herself sound like a 12 year old who hasn’t gotten her way. Example # 1: Christmas time there was a large ass power outage going on that affected 1000’s of people in our area. She posted on Facebook that not her but her parents are without power and it will not be restored till after the holiday. Oh no that wasn’t the end of the post, because of this her Christmas was ruined, and I quote “I am just going to stay in bed all day and cry”. Was she upset that it’s really cold and her parents have no heat? No. She was upset cause the plan was to go over there and do what it is they do for Christmas. For goodness sake you didn’t loose power how about you have Christmas at your house (because she does have a house of her own). You are not a kid so GET OVER IT! Example #2: posting your childish revenge on facebook. I guess the next shift to relieve this person always comes in late so she gets out about 10-15mins late. Who wouldn’t be pissed at that, right? So in all rights it’s ok to be pissed but not ok to post what your going to do is switch shift with someone for the sole purpose of………being the one to relieve her and taking forever to be ready for your job so she is now late leaving. WTF, really I sure that showed her…lol. She spent too much time and thought I this person she doesn’t like (kinda what I am doing now hahahaha, no really I did not spent time thinking about this just wrote it). Not a real example but she has gotten into multiple petty fights over Facebook with her boyfriends mom, which I have read. What that shit is funny.

Now this next person makes me laugh out loud everytime. The post usually consist of nobody likes blah blah blah (hehe), she has some great pity party’s of Facebook. Also she talks about how horrible her dad is because of things he does or doesn’t do, and I can agree with some of these things but not all. Her most hilarious post are when she talks about how shitty of a dad her husband/father of her child is. It’s funny to me to just watch the argument that follows. I happen to be friends with both of them, more so the husband. Sometimes these post trigger him into posting something on his page that is equally entertaining. Before the baby was born she was already starting this crap. I did let her know (I am older then her and have to children already and have seen these things myself) that guys sometimes do get super excited or into the baby things until the baby arrives because it may not be real to them until they see the baby. I told her that the father of my children seemed to careless that I was having a baby the first time, but once I gave birth that all changed he was happy excited and very loving. She tells me well it’s nice that you have someone like that but that’s not how bob is and he doesn’t care and isn’t going to care (oh yeah she is very negative). The child is born he is doing a good job for being a young first time father. Now she complains that she changes and feeds him more, this meaning he does love our child, again I like her know that I have been there and that is not what that means, and as my kids got older the more things shifted into my kids father doing more and me doing less. And of course that was not going to happen for her, hahaha, it has. Just going to wrap this up cause I could go on and on. Every other day there is something new, I quit giving advice.

Thanks for reading kisses,
Lady BlahBlah

Breast feeding in public

Oh where it begin……well I recently read in the news about a women (and a group of pro breast feeding crazy people) are wanting an “official” apology from an airline that may have been a bit harsh when telling a women that she shouldn’t breast feed her baby on the plane without covering up. Ok here is what I think about breast feeding in public, it’s fine so long as you cover it up. And you don’t have to cover the baby’s face to effectively cover up, just hold the cover or the blanket up. NOBODY wants to see your boobs so let’s keep them covered. People that are saying its wrong and violating the mothers rights, well what about my right to not see someone’s breast in a public place with my kids. So what you people are say is your rights are more important than mine? Next for those who say its natural and people should except it or get over it. Well here is the thing yes it is indeed natural to breast feed your baby, but if you don’t cover yourself your still showing your breast to the people around you (which in my opinion is not natural). If your going to go ahead and say that it is still natural, in that case lets all walk around naked because ummm that’s natural. We were born naked. So if we are going to fight about this being a natural thing don’t mind if the man sitting next you is butt ass naked because that too, is indeed natural. Can’t help but add this the same moms that want to breast feed the babies uncovered in public are also dressing them, hahaha. Come on don’t half ass it be natural, take those clothes and diapers off, oh and yours too. Or is it that they can pick and choose as to what is “natural”?

Lastly, if you can’t make the whole flight without either pumping and feeding ahead of time or feeding covered up then maybe you should pick a more private way to travel. Don’t force your believe that not covering in public is natural on other people, unless you want me to force all of my believes on you. FYI, I have no clue who these people are or what airline it was.

Thanks for reading kisses,
Lady BlahBlah